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Hodn\u011b maminek se ale nechce vzd\u00e1t bezb\u0159eh\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de, tak\u017ee ze sv\u00fdch ratolest\u00ed vychov\u00e1vaj\u00ed…","datePublished":"2025-09-27","dateModified":"2025-09-27","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.spedex.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.spedex.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/15c4177f6d86975c976af12ba80b10af7add2f97f8786f8cf1596253472c0ea7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/15c4177f6d86975c976af12ba80b10af7add2f97f8786f8cf1596253472c0ea7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"spedex.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.spedex.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a338018_w2548_t1550848163.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.spedex.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a338018_w2548_t1550848163.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.spedex.cz\/mama-by-mela-byt-mamou-ne-sluzebnou\/","wordCount":519,"articleBody":"P\u0159\u00edchod miminka do rodiny je velmi velkou ud\u00e1lost\u00ed, kterou se v\u0161echno m\u011bn\u00ed. Zpo\u010d\u00e1tku je skute\u010dn\u011b ve\u0161ker\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de kolem d\u00edt\u011bte pouze na matce, v\u011bt\u0161ina \u017een se z tohoto \u00fakolu nevykrout\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b ale roste, a aby byl jeho v\u00fdvoj spr\u00e1vn\u00fd, mus\u00ed se i osamostatnit. Hodn\u011b maminek se ale nechce vzd\u00e1t bezb\u0159eh\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de, tak\u017ee ze sv\u00fdch ratolest\u00ed vychov\u00e1vaj\u00ed nesamostatn\u00e9 a na m\u00e1m\u011b z\u00e1visl\u00e9 d\u011bti. Jenom\u017ee i v\u00fdchova jako takov\u00e1 by m\u011bla m\u00edt jasn\u00e1 pravidla a stanoven\u00e9 hranice, aby i m\u00e1my m\u011bly \u010das samy na sebe nebo sv\u00e9ho partnera. Dobr\u00fdm pravidlem se osv\u011bd\u010dila ve\u010derka, nap\u0159\u00edklad v\u00a0osm hodin ve\u010der, kdy d\u011bti v\u00ed, \u017ee maj\u00ed nevyhnutelnou povinnost j\u00edt sp\u00e1t.Pokud je m\u00e1ma ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e1, proto\u017ee je uhnan\u00e1 neust\u00e1lou stereotypn\u00ed prac\u00ed, ob\u010das zpest\u0159enou o n\u011bjak\u00fd z\u00e1drhel nebo prek\u00e9rn\u00ed situaci, st\u00e1v\u00e1 se ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 i jej\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b. Unaven\u00e1 m\u00e1ma nezna\u010d\u00ed nic dobr\u00e9ho. P\u0159ehnan\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de pak zp\u016fsob\u00ed, \u017ee nap\u0159\u00edklad dvoulet\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b nen\u00ed schopno doj\u00edt vykonat svoji pot\u0159ebu na toaletu, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e jsou i p\u0159\u00edpady p\u011btilet\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se neum\u00ed samy obl\u00e9ci. P\u0159itom sta\u010d\u00ed m\u00e1lo, d\u00edt\u011b je st\u00e1le v\u00a0procesu objevov\u00e1n\u00ed a u\u010den\u00ed se, mus\u00ed mu b\u00fdt ale tento rozvoj osobnosti umo\u017en\u011bn. Pokud m\u00e1ma d\u011bl\u00e1 za d\u011bti v\u0161e, ukl\u00edz\u00ed po nich pokoje i oble\u010den\u00ed ze \u017eidle, vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed si tak z\u00a0rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed hotov\u00e9 galeje a st\u00e1v\u00e1 se slu\u017eebnic\u00ed, ne m\u00e1mou s\u00a0l\u00e1skyplnou n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed.Nejhor\u0161\u00ed na tom v\u0161em je, \u017ee netrp\u00ed jen ona, n\u00fdbr\u017e v\u0161ichni okolo. O atmosf\u00e9\u0159e v\u00a0rodin\u011b nebo dusnu mezi partnery co se milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota nemluv\u011b. Je ot\u00e1zkou, jak\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk vyroste z\u00a0mal\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte, kter\u00e9mu m\u00e1ma cel\u00fd \u017eivot jenom pom\u00e1hala a posluhovala, starala se o n\u011bj s nekone\u010dnou l\u00e1skou a kdejak\u00e9 pr\u016f\u0161vihy za n\u011bj \u0159e\u0161ila. Ur\u010dit\u011b prvn\u00ed rok od narozen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte je nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed a nejslo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Jen\u017ee i p\u00e9\u010de o d\u00edt\u011b v tomto obdob\u00ed se d\u00e1 rozd\u011blit mezi rodi\u010de. Sestaven\u00ed pl\u00e1nu, kdo bude m\u00edt jak\u00e9 povinnosti, jak to bude se spole\u010dn\u00fdmi chv\u00edlemi nebo kdy je mo\u017en\u00e9 vyrazit na n\u00e1kup nebo v\u00fdlet spole\u010dn\u011b, ur\u010dit\u011b stoj\u00ed za to. M\u00e1m\u011b tak odpadne n\u011bkolik m\u00e1lo prac\u00ed a m\u016f\u017ee si naj\u00edt \u010das chv\u00edli sama pro sebe. To sam\u00e9 plat\u00ed ohledn\u011b v\u00fdchovy. Asi od jednoho roku v\u011bku d\u00edt\u011bte je t\u0159eba d\u00e1t sm\u011br pravidl\u016fm, podle kter\u00fdch rodi\u010de spole\u010dn\u011b vychovaj\u00ed jejich potomka, v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b sourozenc\u016f je na m\u00edst\u011b d\u00e1vat pozor p\u0159i obvi\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed jednoho nebo druh\u00e9ho.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        5\/5 - (1 vote)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"M\u00e1ma by m\u011bla b\u00fdt m\u00e1mou, ne slu\u017eebnou","item":"https:\/\/www.spedex.cz\/mama-by-mela-byt-mamou-ne-sluzebnou\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]